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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-14 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POSt #2600 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2600 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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08. [WARNING for rape]



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10. [WARNING for RL death]



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11. [WARNING for underage?]

[Lilo and Stitch]


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12. [WARNING for rape, non-con]



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13. [WARNING for rape]

[Panic! at the Disco]


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14. [WARNING for child molestation?]



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15. [WARNING for rape]

[Silent Hill]


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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: Advice?

(Anonymous) 2014-02-15 02:03 am (UTC)(link)
Communicate clearly and calmly why you don't want to go and then stick to what you say and don't go. Don't make it a debate or a discussion, be firm, not passive aggressive or whiney. They'll most likely make a big deal of it, maybe even cancel the whole trip in a giant bid at emotional manipulation. Do not let them get to you. If you don't stand up at some point then they will continue to use guilt because it's worked in the past.

So basically you have to decide if you really want to put your foot down and not go, or just go with what sounds like the status quo and give in.

If you DO end up going, try and make the best of it. Don't focus on how much work your missing or other negative things. You're there, try and enjoy it.

Good luck.