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I'm sorry to bother you fandomsecrets but this is the only place I feel comfortable talking about this. I have this friend. She is beautiful and a talented singer and well to make a long story short I said that I would be the Ashton to her Demi, but she rejected me. She said we didn't have a big enough gap. How do I deal with this? Should I just move on or do you think it is worth pursuing? Do you think that if I got my hair cut like Ashton it would convince her?

Move on. If she said no, she means no and you gotta respect that.

Nobody likes it when people keep pushing things.

Edited 2014-02-16 04:58 (UTC)

HOW DARE YOU

I bet you're one of those "nice singers"

I feel like this my not be true, but if it is you may have wanted to have gone into more detailed because this is very vague and kind of confusing. Not entirely sure why her being a singer is important, why you used the Ashton/Demi comparison (does she like these people?), what you even mean by "big enough gap", and why cutting your hair like Ashton would change anything (has that ever worked for anyone ever, changing appearance to match a celebertiy)?

Probably wouldn't try anymore, never known any romantic situation that actually worked out from further pursuing. If it bothers you really badly, you could always go to a psychologist, they'll help you overcome it.

Obviously the friend knows what she wants and you ain't it. Pack it up and move it along. No girl is worth a hair cut.

OP here - Sorry, but I think you are wrong. The anon below said that it would work. And it's just hair so either way, I will have an Ashton Kutcher haircut.

Ooh~ When did anons become the experts in everything?

Also hair is everything in life. Anyone else who tries to tell you otherwise is clearly leading you astray.

Well. I didn't realize you were so possessive. But okay. If you want to be the only one to lead me anywhere, I am down for that.

If you're interested, I've got a secluded tower in the woods. No door. One window at the top.

Call me.

I can't I have T-Mobile :(

Also hair is everything in life.

I couldn't agree more. In fact, you could say the human bodies only exist to house well-maintained, painstakingly curated specimens of hair. We're merely the host to this beautiful creature.

It's what we were born to do.

Oh, anon, anon, anon.

Getting your hair cut like Ashton won't just convince her. It'll solve every problem in your life. Your bosses will like you more and you'll get a promotion immediately, and people will laugh much harder at your jokes.

OP here - Thank you for this good advice, this is exactly what I wanted to hear!

...This is so oddly phrased.

But if she said no, she said no, that's all there is to it. You shouldn't try to change for someone in the first place, it'll just make you unhappy, believe me. And it's unlikely to work anyway. My advice is to have some ice cream, be sad for a bit, and move on.

Chin up. :)

The real question is why would you do this to yourself?

http://i.imgur.com/RZ8xH6G.jpg

Bad haircut choice anon.

Uh, ignoring the references I don't get, if you've been rejected - you've been rejected. Try to move on.

Didn't Ashton and Demi split up?

OP here - Yes but they were together before that!

You should just pretend to be the Ashton to her Demi of the present time - you tried, it didn't work out, you broke up. Soothing to your brain and not annoying to her. (Just don't bring it up in a conversation. It might be awkeward if you start talking about the great time you had together as lovers.)

This is the best advice ever seen on f!s

this is what you should do OP

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