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⌈ Secret Post #2605 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Slenderman]

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[Saints Row 3]

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[Doctor Who]

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[Welcome to Night Vale, My Mad Fat Diary]

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[The Middle]

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[Steven Universe]

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[Kyuhyun and Seohyun]

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[Disney]

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[Teen Wolf]

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[Thor: Dark World]

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[The Avengers/Clark Gregg]

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[Teen Wolf]

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[Hannibal]

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[Fate/Stay Night]

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Being nice* and cute is a good start to making friends, but if you want to keep them, you've got to bring more to the table. I had a friend like this once. She was freaking adorable and nice and hilariously funny... but she was also flaky and somewhat immature. You couldn't rely on her for anything: projects, keeping confidences, being sensitive about your problems, your schedule, your emotional fragility, etc. She was the kind of person who's fun to chat to as long as she's being entertained or helped in some way, but it's purely a one-way street. She can't help you. She probably won't even stick around to hear the problem, not even as a sympathetic listener. It just wasn't in her to do this, and all the physical beauty and wit in the world doesn't make up for that.

She often wondered aloud why she makes a lot of friends, but they don't stick around. I never told her why, because it'd only upset her and she wouldn't change, anyway. Most people are unaware of the aspects of their behavior/personality that are off-putting. If you're serious about wanting to know, it's probably time to take an objective assessment of yourself. If you know at least one person whose judgement you trust and who'd be willing to be honest with you, ask them and don't blow up in their face if/when their answer is painful. Good luck, anon.

* and this is a very imprecise, vague term. Damn near everyone thinks they're basically nice, but how many people actually are?

Plus, "nice" is a far cry from good. It's easy to be nice--as long as everything is easy for you.

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