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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-19 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #2605 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2605 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Slenderman]


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03.
[Saints Row 3]


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04.
[Doctor Who]


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05.
[Welcome to Night Vale, My Mad Fat Diary]


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06.
[The Middle]


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07.
[Steven Universe]


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08.
[Kyuhyun and Seohyun]


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09.
[Disney]


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10.
[Teen Wolf]


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11.
[Thor: Dark World]


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12.
[The Avengers/Clark Gregg]


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13.
[Teen Wolf]


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14.
[Hannibal]


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15.
[Fate/Stay Night]















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 036 secrets from Secret Submission Post #372.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Non-fandom confessions gooooo

(Anonymous) 2014-02-20 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Friendship is a too-way street: it's not that you walk through life and these creatures called "friends" magically cling on to you. So, if people are telling you you're nice, or you're pretty, then YES you have had people make a gesture towards being your friend (or maybe those people telling you how cute you are were actually - gasp! - trying to flit with you!).

The thing to do when people open things like that is to find something you like about them and say it BACK. And then maybe offer to spend time together doing some mutual thing.

Or, when someone you think is cute mentions that YOU'RE cute - yeah, then the ball's in your court and you have to volley it back if you want things to escalate to a flirtation.

Look at it from the other way - if you found somebody you wanted to convince to be your friend, and you told them how nice they were, and they simple muttered "thanks" and then walked away, you'd quit, right? Or if you thought somebody else was hot and took the effort to say, "Hey, you're so cute!" and they just brushed it off, you'd feel rejected and move on, no?