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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-20 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2606 ]


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[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-02-21 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
You can be active and friendly all you like, but in order to make friends you actually have to engage someone directly. Pick someone you think is interesting, ask them about themselves, maybe make positive comments or contribute knowledge.

Making friends isn't that hard. You really just have to show that you're interested in someone and chances are they'll be interested in you too.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-21 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
Not the OP, but I've tried all that. It just seems that people don't need any more friends than the ones they have in their clique. Unless someone really cool comes along, but I guess I'm not that person.

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2014-02-21 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
Huh. You must have some real jerks in your fandom then, anon. Sorry to hear that.

(If it makes a difference, you don't want to be friends with people like that anyway. They tend to suck.)

da

(Anonymous) 2014-02-21 08:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Or they're the jerk. If one or two people blow you off, it might be them. If every group you try to engage with eventually shuts you out, it's probably you.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-21 02:18 am (UTC)(link)
This seems to be very prevalent, tbh.

You would think with the great breadth and sheer numbers of people on the internet it should be easy to find friends with the right investment of time and attention. But it isn't.

I have much better luck in rl.