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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-20 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2606 ]


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Re: Presumptions about relationships and their "purpose" really piss me off.

(Anonymous) 2014-02-21 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
I feel you, anon. Relationships are always supposed to have some sort of "endgame," and everyone and their mother is more than happy to remind you of that.

Why? Why can't a relationship just be about two people enjoying one another and having a good time for as long as it lasts? Why does it have to be attached to some goal? People get so weird about this. I mean, there are people freaking out about the fact that fewer Americans are marrying, acting like it's some sort of huge crisis, and I'm like...why do you even care? If you dig marriage, then get married, and stop worrying about everyone else.

I'm married because it's what my SO and I wanted. But a) not everyone wants that, and that's okay; and b) relationships don't have to "go anywhere." I don't have any regrets about the relationships I had that were just for shits and giggles. In fact, I remember them fondly.

I guess what I'm saying is that I get your frustration, anon, and I think people are stupid and should get off your back.