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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-21 07:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #2607 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2607 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Shaun of the Dead]


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13. http://i.imgur.com/Lnyxfbz.jpg
[link for porny, doujinshi]


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15. [WARNING for rape]



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16. [WARNING for rape, pedophilia]



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17. [WARNING for molestation]

[Gatchaman Crowds]


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19. [WARNING for molestation]
http://i.imgur.com/tm7SaaX.jpg
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Re: So I have a problem...

(Anonymous) 2014-02-22 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
I think openness in a relationship is super important, even if that open dialogue ends up in a split or a bit of uncomfortableness for a spot. I think if you're not happy about an aspect of the relationship - and her job is an aspect - then you should be open about it. Also, while you're right that it's her body her choice, I think it's also important to take into consideration your partners feelings and if her response to your bringing this stuff up is "tough shit" then she seems like kind of an asshole.

Personally, I think there is quite a difference between nude photography and being a webcam girl and I too would be uncomfortable with the latter.

I don't know your mind, so I cant' say if you're being a possessive asshole, but I don't think it's unreasonable to be uncomfortable with this step. I think what you need to think about is if it's a level of uncomfort that you want to end the relationship or if you'd be okay going on even if she continued on this path.

Re: So I have a problem...

(Anonymous) 2014-02-22 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
I'm being unkind to her. her opinion was much more than "tough shit". I really am being unfair to here, it was more that in the end it boiled down to it being my problem to get over.

It is not a relationship ender for me. if she goes ahead with it, I'll have to live with it, because it's not worth breaking up for.

You're right of course. Talk to her and see what happens.

Re: So I have a problem...

(Anonymous) 2014-02-22 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
Oh ok, as long as she's just not outright ignoring your feelings and concerns. I mean in the end yeah, it's her decision, but your feelings should be taken into account.

Overall I'd definitely say at least bring it up and talk it out. Always good to be open about concerns and all that.

Good luck!
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Re: So I have a problem...

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2014-02-22 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
You are being a fucking doormat.

When she leaves you for a proper man you'll probably say you deserved it.