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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-21 07:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #2607 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2607 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Shaun of the Dead]


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13. http://i.imgur.com/Lnyxfbz.jpg
[link for porny, doujinshi]


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[Gatchaman Crowds]


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19. [WARNING for molestation]
http://i.imgur.com/tm7SaaX.jpg
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Re: So I have a problem...

(Anonymous) 2014-02-22 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
First off, always be honest. Honesty and communication is important to any relationship, and you won't be any happier if you hide how you feel. Plus, she probably already knows you won't be comfortable with it, if the modeling made you uncomfortable as well. I don't think it's an asshole-ish thing to do--plenty of people would be uncomfortable if their partners were doing nude modeling or porn. Now, obviously there are decent ways of saying how you feel, so as long as you guys can have a proper discussion about it, I definitely think the best thing to do is to explain how you feel to her.

That being said... correct me if I'm wrong, but if she was a cam girl, wouldn't she be alone? In her room or whatever. Maybe it's just my opinion, but I feel like that would be BETTER than the nude modeling--at least if she's working alone, there's less chance of weirdo creeps like the fake photographers. I dunno, maybe that's just me, but I feel like that situation would be better.

(Although, as someone who does non-nude modeling herself, I have to raise an eyebrow at the thought of a sustainable income off just that kind of work. Maybe I'm underestimating the porn industry, but unless you have some kind of contract or get REALLY popular, modeling isn't really the most stable, well-paying industry ever... so it would be kind of silly if she decided not to go through with it and then blamed you for being broke.)

Sorry, I'm sort of rambling. Anyway, my advice would be to stop and think about why, specifically, you feel uncomfortable with it--you say you don't know, but you should probably try and figure it out, to make everything clear. But most definitely tell her how you feel. That's really all you can do.