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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-21 07:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #2607 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2607 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Shaun of the Dead]


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13. http://i.imgur.com/Lnyxfbz.jpg
[link for porny, doujinshi]


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[Gatchaman Crowds]


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19. [WARNING for molestation]
http://i.imgur.com/tm7SaaX.jpg
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Re: So I have a problem...

[personal profile] caerbannog 2014-02-22 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
Well, this is about you and her so forget about her friends, it doesn't really matter if you sound cool or not with it. I don't see any problems with you being uncomfortable with it and I would hope most of your concern isn't about how others would perceive you in the relationship over this.
If you reckon it's going to put a strain on things I'd suggest having a (calm) sit down to discuss this. You've already taken good steps in saying you want to think about it, maybe use the time to think of a way to phrase how you feel then sit down and talk it out with her - especially if she's going ahead with it, maybe find steps to make it easier on the relationship.

At least by having communication, you can work at it. But to me it sounds like most of your concerns are a) unhappy/not happy about it and b) what other people will think of you.

Hard as it is, fuck anything that falls under b and try and focus on communicating about a and trying to mitigate it if you both agree for her to go ahead with it while you're still dating.