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fandomsecrets2014-02-21 07:25 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2014-02-21 07:25 pm
[ SECRET POST #2607 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2607 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Shaun of the Dead]
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13. http://i.imgur.com/Lnyxfbz.jpg
[link for porny, doujinshi]
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14. [SPOILERS for DRAMAtical Murder]
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[Gatchaman Crowds]
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http://i.imgur.com/tm7SaaX.jpg
[Shingeki no Kyojin, molestation scene? in image]
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #372.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: So I have a problem...
For one, if it ever gets out and future employers of the more mainstream variety got wind of it, that just might be the end of her career. Sadly, there's a huge stigma that surrounds this kind of work and it tends to follow you. For another, that business can be abusive, dangerous, and lead to illegal activity at its worst. You're right to be concerned about that, because looking out for her health and safety is a thing you are allowed to do.
But you need to remember that this isn't always the case, and you also need to keep in mind that she is an adult with (hopefully) a rational mind.
At the heart of this, your discomfort probably stems from the knowledge that this isn't a socially acceptable thing. What it says about you personally and your attitudes toward people in that line of work is something you need to figure out, but that's the long and short of it. The bottom line is: if it's what she wants and she fully understands and accepts those consequences, then you really don't have a say in it.
Discuss it with her to make sure she understands what she's doing and knows your feelings on the matter, then leave the decision to her. That is all you can and should do.