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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-21 07:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #2607 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2607 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Shaun of the Dead]


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13. http://i.imgur.com/Lnyxfbz.jpg
[link for porny, doujinshi]


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14. [SPOILERS for DRAMAtical Murder]






















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15. [WARNING for rape]



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16. [WARNING for rape, pedophilia]



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17. [WARNING for molestation]

[Gatchaman Crowds]


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19. [WARNING for molestation]
http://i.imgur.com/tm7SaaX.jpg
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Re: [TRIGGER WARNING] Need advice...

(Anonymous) 2014-02-23 02:12 am (UTC)(link)
This is why the general obsession with rape and assault, continual broadening of the definitions of rape and assault, and emphasis on the "rape culture" have been worrying me for some time now. It's one thing to be appropriately aware that a danger exists, and another to be bombarded with hysteria about it 24/7, without regard to whether a particular individual's personal level of risk is in line with the messages they're receiving, and without acknowledging that many women who are raped survive the experience and manage to recover and live good lives afterward.

(I am not for one moment suggesting that rape is not a terrible thing, or that it should be taken lightly. I'm simply concerned that I see so many women who seem to be caught in a similar mindset to the OP, fearing rape above all other possible catastrophes, all the time, and this is clearly not a good thing.)

Others have made some good suggestions, OP, but I'd like to add that you might find some perspective by looking up the statistics on other bad things that commonly happen to people. For example, both men and women in the U.S. are more likely to be in a serious car crash in their lifetimes than women are to be raped. Everyone acknowledges that car crashes are horrible and agrees that every reasonable precaution should be taken to avoid them, yet very few people live in perpetual terror of getting into a car.