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It's a YMMV thing. Plenty of lube, foreplay, a gentle insertion, and a slow start to let me adjust are usually all I need for a reasonably sized prick (biological or technological). Ritualistically going through a finger count usually isn't necessary for me.

I'm either "open for business" or I'm not. If I'm not, well, I'm not in the right headspace and a finger won't get me there. I disagree with him in that I don't find it remotely painful if I'm in the right headspace and the other person isn't hitting me wrong. It's like plugging into a cosmic light socket.

But, receiving anal sex is more a learned skill than some state of dilation achieved mostly by the top's diligent efforts at keeping track of how many fingers he's using.

And his followup comment that assuming that all men need that level of preparation every time we bottom is both inaccurate and limits the kind of scenes you can write is certainly spot on.

Edited 2014-02-24 05:05 (UTC)

I'm either "open for business" or I'm not. If I'm not, well, I'm not in the right headspace and a finger won't get me there.

That actually sounds an awful lot like vaginal sex. If you're ready and you want it, you're good to go with almost no prep, if you're not all the finger banging in the world won't help.

Thank you for the insight!

According to another dude on f!s his "the head isn't sensitive" experience is almost certainly a cut versus uncut phenomenon. I've been with almost exclusively uncut men (an accident of geography, not bias on my part), whereas he suspects this guy is cut. Would you agree?

I don't have enough experience with uncut men to compare. Some guys like this, some guys like that. The weather changes minute by minute.

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