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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-23 03:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2609 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2609 ⌋

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Re: Death and apathy (TW maybe)

(Anonymous) 2014-02-24 08:27 pm (UTC)(link)
There's nothing wrong with you, anon.

Maybe you didn't bear him any ill will, but it doesn't seem he was around much, or at least long enough for you two to establish a parent-child relationship that wasn't completely awkward.

Your feelings are your own, and no one can tell you how you should feel. You are the one who lived those experiences with him, and only you can say what kind of impression those left on you.

I'm not telling you that you should feel indifferent, just that it's okay to feel indifferent, based upon what you've shared with the comm.

(Though IMO it kind of sounds like you've been feeling something for him all your life, whether it was pity or understanding for a person in his situation, or even both.)