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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-24 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2610 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2610 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Ace Attorney: Dual Destinies]


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03.
[Twin Peaks]


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04.
[DC Comics, Strix and Batgirl]


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05.
[my mad fat diary]


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06.
[Sekai Seifuku]


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07.
[Lindsey Stirling]


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08.
[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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09.
[Attack on Titan]


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10.
[How to Train Your Dragon]


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11.
[Figure Skating]


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12.
[A Wild Endeavour]


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13.
[American Horror Story]


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14.
[The Americans]

















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 061 secrets from Secret Submission Post #372.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: My sister

(Anonymous) 2014-02-25 12:45 am (UTC)(link)
My situation is a lot less severe than yours and relationships between sisters are hardly identical across the board, but I too spent much of my childhood being casually berated by my sister, who was incredibly self-conscious (probably because she had a severe weight problem and I was thin).

She did it up until I was in my late teens and realized that the only way to get her to stop was to point it out every single time. Pokes at my insecurities? "Fuck off, sis." Makes front of me in front of other people? "Fuck off, sis." Do it way too many times when we're together? "Fuck off sis, I'm leaving/get out of my house". It took several years before it sank in almost completely, but it did.

Seriously, just voicing your displeasure at your treatment can get the message through pretty strongly, if you enforce it enough. Your sister has to be made aware of what she's doing, especially if she's been doing it so long she doesn't think twice about it anymore.