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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-02-24 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2610 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2610 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Ace Attorney: Dual Destinies]


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03.
[Twin Peaks]


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04.
[DC Comics, Strix and Batgirl]


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05.
[my mad fat diary]


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06.
[Sekai Seifuku]


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07.
[Lindsey Stirling]


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08.
[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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09.
[Attack on Titan]


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10.
[How to Train Your Dragon]


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11.
[Figure Skating]


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12.
[A Wild Endeavour]


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13.
[American Horror Story]


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14.
[The Americans]

















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 061 secrets from Secret Submission Post #372.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: My sister

(Anonymous) 2014-02-25 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
If you can, OP, I'd call her out on her behavior. Not in a nasty or defensive way, just sort of like: "Did you really just insult my hair/clothes/career/etc. as part of a casual conversation? Wow."

or: "I love you, but when you say [example of unpleasant thing], it makes me not want to spend time with you anymore."

If she keeps it up, belittles you for being over-sensitive or not taking a joke, leave the room. Reward her for nice behavior, and refuse to be around for nasty behavior. Hang up if it's a phone conversation. Leave the room or house if you're together physically. Decide on a cooling off period where your absence is felt and then try again with a fresh slate. Most of all, be consistent. If you let small remarks slide for shorterm peace, it'll just mean longterm putting up with your sister's sniping.