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⌈ Secret Post #2610 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Ace Attorney: Dual Destinies]

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[Twin Peaks]

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[DC Comics, Strix and Batgirl]

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[my mad fat diary]

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[Sekai Seifuku]

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[Lindsey Stirling]

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[Star Trek: The Next Generation]

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[Attack on Titan]

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[How to Train Your Dragon]

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[Figure Skating]

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[A Wild Endeavour]

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[American Horror Story]

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[The Americans]

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(reply from suspended user)

Several psychiatrists who treated me were completely incompetent morons, up to the point of it being laughable. I'm not talking about one single occasions, I'm talking about at least 5 of them. Or, you know, every one who actually tried to treat me, except one of my school's psychologists, who - lo and behold - was actually not "qualified" to treat me. It was suck a fucking joke. Combined with my experiences and those of my friends I have ZERO faith in psychiatric care. Hell, I don't even consider them real doctors. I don't even consider it a real science.

I wouldn't put my faith in the hands of one of these "professionals" again if you paid me money. I'd rather take my chances.

>how is this point being lost on you?

It isn't. I just think there are worse things than death.

Are you trolling?

nope.

Paranoid, then? Either way, stop forcing your extreme view on people who might be in crisis, that's shitty.

If they're in a crisis it's important they know their rights and their options.

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(Anonymous) - 2014-02-25 04:07 (UTC) - Expand

I'm starting to consider you are trolling, because nobody could be so obtuse.

nope

ok, so you are just stupid then.

I love you too <3

"how can you judge that they were "incompetent morons"?

Because they believed their own bullshit, and completely nonsensical fabrications. For example, one of them got it in their head I have PTSD and must be an abuse victim. Another one even called in my mother to talk about whether she had a "normal" pregnancy. Another one thought that me reading superhero comics was a problem. PTSD guy also thought my not being interested in a relationship at 19 was not normal. Seriously, I WISH I was making this shit up, but I couldn't if I tried.

Clearly, I'm not going to convince you. But in my experience I encountered more harmful people than helpful ones, and while I might just have an unusually shitty experience, I simply do not believe my experience would be an isolated incident. The only thing that therapy did for me was waste my time, and my parents' money.

"and what happened when you told them that you hadn't been abused?

Him asking "really?" incredulously and asking more questions because he apparently thought I was lying, and constantly fishing for traumatic events in my childhood that never happened.

"this is a completely standard part of a psychiatric diagnostic interview"

If you say so.

"again, what did you say to dissuade them of these notions once they presented them to you?"

Why should I dissuade them in the first place? These are not even particularly strange matters. I don't particularly need a reason for either except "I like comics" and "not interested in a relationship". Comics guy dropped it, but relationship/PTSD guy kept asking about it.

Also the bigger problem is that all these inane theories actually removed me further from working through the real issues.

"is not going to convince a person who has been in two different mental hospitals and has worked at a mental hospital for the last two years"

Well then there's no point arguing with you. I stand by my point, disagreeing with you, as I'm sure you surely will, too.

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(Anonymous) - 2014-02-25 03:53 (UTC) - Expand

(Anonymous) - 2014-02-25 22:56 (UTC) - Expand

you sound like a textbook case of narcissistic personality disorder.

Delightful, another idiot trying to be an armchair psychologist. Bravo!

nayrt
whether or not you're a narcissist (which you absolutely fucking are, and a dangerous one too), the bullshit you're spouting is exactly the same shit that my abusive ex vomited all over me any time i tried to make him take responsibility for his own actions. you are so fucking high on yourself that you can't see that people can't read your mind, that you're hurting the people you claim to want to help, and that you are the problem. i bet you've lost friends. i bet you've told yourself that it's just because the world is against you and you've done nothing wrong. newsflash: you are a shitty goddamn excuse for a human being and i hope someone pours maple syrup in your underwear drawer.

"i hope someone pours maple syrup in your underwear drawer"

so brave. Much courage. wow.

I don't know your ex, so I have no business judging him/her. If they were abusive to you, then I'm sorry, but you're projecting things on me, because you have absolutely no way of knowing who I am in real life. Hell, chances are you probably even had a conversation with me here under another name.

As for more of your delightful armchair psychology: I actually haven't lost many friends over the years. In my "bad phase" I decided to leave most people behind and start from scratch, but most people I met as friends after that I kept. Sure, some have drifted away as they coupled up, got married and had babies, but I hear I'm not the only one that happens to. So no, I hate to inform you I'm sadly not the monster you'd like me to be. I have suffered many setbacks that were not my fault, I also royally fucked up in some things. Such is life. I have no problems admitting I'm sometimes wrong, that doesn't mean huge fuck-ups didn't happen in terms of my mental health care and some of my friends.

Newsflash: you know nothing, Jon Snow.

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(Anonymous) - 2014-02-25 04:30 (UTC) - Expand

You really do sound like a troll at this point, especially considering the way you only reply to stella, who is a bit of a controversy magnet re: mental health issues.

I can see how that is - you have a pretty flat, direct way of expressing yourself re: mental health. It's gonna rub some people the wrong way. That said, usually you're the reason I don't feel like I need to post in these threads (I'm on the other side of the fence, as in having been in and out of treatment for a while and generally profiting greatly from it).

I answered to sarilia before. Franky stella just pissed me the hell off when talking about mental health - not just in this post, but in this post specifically, and I decided to speak my mind today.

I'll take that as a compliment.