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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-01 03:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2615 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2615 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-01 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
What I think you're saying: You want to date this person but aren't 100% sure you'd ever want to have sex with them, and you think that dating them without knowing if you'd want sex would just lead to disappointment on their end?

If that's correct: Be open and honest with them. While a lot of people assume sex is going to enter the picture at some point, I don't think it's something you *must have* in a relationship. Maybe this person would be okay without sex, or maybe they'd be fine with taking things super slow and letting you set the comfort zones.

I dont' think you have to be 100% positive about how a relationship is going to go to enter one, you just have to *want* to be in a relationship. I mean does the idea of dating them, romance, dates, spending time in a romantic way - does that all appeal to you? If so, then I say talk to them in an open and honest way and see where it goes!


..and if I've completely misread this entire thing please feel free to ignore me.