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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-01 03:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2615 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2615 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-02 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
My mother and I had a huge argument the other day, she claims that I'm not happy with my current job. (Office worker for my father) And she wants me to see a career counselor (Plus a few other things) so that I will find something that will "make me happy". And then, I got to have a rational talk with my father over the fact that being creative and the type of stuff that makes me happy takes energy and working forty hours for him doesn't give me energy to do the creative stuff I'd need to do to put me in a career that would "Make me happy." Creative energy comes from your heart. And I've been having heart troubles so all my heart energy is going into healing, which doesn't leave a lot left over for anything else other than working and sometimes not even that.

The other kicker is, a job isn't going to make me happy. Only ME can make me happy, everything else is external. I have taken responsibility for myself for my happiness and my health. No job or other person or anything else is going to change that.

So, long story, I'm agreeing with previous commenter. When you invest your heart energy into having a solid so called 'real' life, you don't always have energy left over for writing and that's okay. Sad, because I'm sure people miss you and you miss them, but it is okay. Now, if you consider writing part of having a solid life, then you'll need to shift your energies a bit. There is nothing wrong with taking an hour away for yourself and doing something you enjoy. The 'real world' will still be there when you get back. Promise!

(Anonymous) 2014-03-02 05:47 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT. I really like this comment. <3

(Anonymous) 2014-03-02 10:40 am (UTC)(link)
I almost agree with you, except circumstances at work can make it more or less difficult for you to be happy, since a full-time job occupies half of your time and energy. So without even entering the realm of dream job that fulfills you, having crappy colleagues, or a shitty boss, or other work conditions that drain your energy even more is not going to help.