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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-02 03:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2616 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2616 ⌋

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Re: When did kink-shaming come back into vogue

(Anonymous) 2014-03-02 10:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think that is how it works. Imagine a pedophile being the same as an an addict. When an addict goes through therapy they don't say, "Well you can have a bit of meth now and again. That's alright." You have to cut it off and NEVER indulge again. Because if you start with just drawn/written materials, it can very quickly cause a pedophile to relapse or increase their need for the real thing (the same way people are always chasing a better high).

Re: When did kink-shaming come back into vogue

(Anonymous) 2014-03-03 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think it works like that.

Indulge never again in real life - definitely yes. Entirely repress that part of themselves and have no therapeutic outlet ever whatsoever - that sounds like an extremely bad idea.

Re: When did kink-shaming come back into vogue

(Anonymous) 2014-03-03 03:52 am (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

The therapy/rehabilitation programs I am aware of place great importance on voluntary celibacy in all areas of sexual life.

It's not an orientation. It's a very serious disorder and it should be treated as such, not indulged in in ways that are "less" harmful.