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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-02 03:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2616 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2616 ⌋

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Re: Stuff you used to love but now can't stand?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-02 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
An ex-friend's "kindness" that feels more like a fetish for other people's misery than genuine concern.

Re: Stuff you used to love but now can't stand?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-02 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Haha, I hear you on that.

Re: Stuff you used to love but now can't stand?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-02 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
...What? Do you really think everyone who shows kindness or concern for others has an alternative motive?

Re: Stuff you used to love but now can't stand?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-02 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I assumed they were talking about a specific ex-friend, not everyone in the known universe.

Re: Stuff you used to love but now can't stand?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-02 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I would wonder why OP is just now concluding this because they're not longer friends. Unless if there's an example, it's a bit doubtful. People aren't so simple; someone could have a bitchy side while still being genuinely concerned for others.

Re: Stuff you used to love but now can't stand?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-03 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
na

Why are you even assuming you know more about this ex-friend than the person who was actually friends with them.

Re: Stuff you used to love but now can't stand?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-03 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
In my experience, most people aren't as simple as being good or evil with little wiggle room in between. I also know that most people who end on bad terms with someone try to assume the worst in them, whether it's true or not.

If the OP had given an example, I would be less skeptical about their claim. But otherwise, it seems like a very sad way to live to think everyone who is kind to you has a selfish motive behind it.

Re: Stuff you used to love but now can't stand?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-03 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
lol what? why do they have to provide an example?

do you need a reference list with that?

Re: Stuff you used to love but now can't stand?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-03 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
When you don't provide more details into your claims, people are going to get skeptical about it. *shrugs*

Re: Stuff you used to love but now can't stand?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-03 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
Codependence is a thing, yo.