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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-03 07:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2617 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2617 ⌋

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Re: Crossed a line?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-04 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, I've gotta ask, does this porn that you found of her have her directly looking at the camera and stating what she's going to do, meaning that it was without a doubt put online with her consent?

If the answer to the above question is "yes", then you did absolutely nothing wrong here. Porn is porn, and people who put it up online consensually know the risk that "anyone can find it". She probably doesn't know and doesn't care if you do as long as she's making bank from it. So no worries if this is the case, dude. Your GF will probably understand since you can't help what porn turns you on. It doesn't mean you love your girlfriend any less or find her less attractive. It just means you found more porn to enjoy.

If, however, it appears as though this stuff was put online without her permission (like hidden cameras or photos taken in a peeping tom fashion), then report that shit immediately. You probably feel sketchy about it because it wasn't used with her permission.

You seem like a good guy, so I'm sure what ever this situation is you're judgment on it will be fine.

Re: Crossed a line?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-04 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
It was a pay-per-view site. I heard about this from a third party who knew she had willingly signed up for the site. I'm pretty confident she was aware of the... nature of the material. I feel creepy because it's my girlfriends young cousin. She was 16 when I first met her. I should not want to fap to this.

Re: Crossed a line?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-04 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
Wait, so is the third party inform you in a "he said she said" kind of way? Or is it apparent that she knows and is willing to be filmed with a camera and crew clearly visible in the room? The difference here is important, because one is nonconsensual while the other is completely consensual. If it appears that there might be something shady going on and your third party is unaware of how that porn got on there, then I'd inform the cousin about this.

However, if it's apparent that the cameras filming this porn are clearly visible in the room and not some weird creepshots, and she's willingly consenting to making money off of it, then it's not an issue. I bet if you told her, she wouldn't even care. Try not to sweat this ok.

Re: Crossed a line?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-04 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
Third party told me something to the effect of "Did you know XXXX has signed up for XXXX.com? She does live chat with toys and stuff." She is literally interacting with the camera. Does this make any sense?

Re: Crossed a line?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-04 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
OH okay. Then dude, if she's a webcam girl, don't sweat it! Seriously, this is no big deal. Porn stars who work in Hollywood say all the time, "When you sign up for this business, you have to be okay with your priest, your old teacher, or anyone else you know stumbling across it." So go enjoy your porn.

I'm sorry if it seemed like I was drilling you before, but nonconsensual porn does get uploaded illegally online (what with new technology for creepers to be creepin' easier), so it's important to be able to tell if it's that to get it taken down.

But since she's a webcam girl, go enjoy that porn. Fap, and then have fun spending guilt free time with your GF.

Re: Crossed a line?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-04 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
You're awesome. You're like the Fap Fairy! dispensing freedom from wank guilt!

Oh, and yeah, non-consensual porn, hidden camera stuff, and ex-girlfriend revenge porn is some of the creepiest most vile shit out there in the great wide web, you and me are on side for this.