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Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

I have a moral question. I believe "A friend of mine" may have crossed a line.

Let me set the scene: "My friend" is a 29yo woman who is in a relationship with a 29yo man.
The man, her boyfriend, has a 20yo cousin.
This cousin is very very hot.

"My friend" is in love with her boyfriend and very much attracted to him, but has on many occasions she has noticed how attractive her boyfriends cousin is.

Today she may have found... certain materials. sexually explicit materials that the cousin has placed publicly online under a fake name. "My friend" then may have made use of these materials and... you know, taken care of her business.

How terrible should "My friend" feel? This is sketch as fuck, yes? "My friend" is a terrible human being, isn't she? Or is she? What do we think? Where is the line on this and did "My Friend" cross it?

Disclaimer: The structure of the above is fundamentally accurate, but it's also possible there are one or two fibs thrown in there. To protect the innocent and stuff.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

No, you didn't cross any lines. He put the stuff online, presumably for that purpose. It's not any different because you're in a relationship with his cousin.

Re: Crossed a line?

[herpymcderp]

...Did this "friend" purposefully go searching for the sexually explicit material?

If so, congratulations, you're halfway to being a stalker. Now just camp outside in the bushes and take pictures to go for the achievement.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

The friend may have heard about the existence of this material through a third party and then did a google.

Re: Crossed a line?

[herpymcderp]

That's still pretty creepy but not as creepy as spending hours stalking email accounts through google to find them. I give this 7.3/10 creeper points, because apparently I'm just rating everything today.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

I'm inclined to think friend's a creep.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

go away herpes even if you're sort of correct nobody likes you anyway

Re: Crossed a line?

[herpymcderp]

herpes

10/10, that's beautiful and I couldn't have done better myself.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

No, he didn't cross any lines. You put the stuff online, presumably for that purpose. It's not any different because he's in a relationship with his cousin.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

wait what

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

No, she didn't cross any lines. She put the stuff online, presumably for that purpose. It's not any different because he's in a relationship with her cousin.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

Are you trying to hedge your bets as to what fibs I may have told?

Re: Crossed a line?

[insanenoodlyguy]

Don't bother denying it.

You made it perfectly obvious you are both cousins and also the great uncle and the girlfriend. and the line that was crossed.

God, stop using this thread to mock us with your omnispresence.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

You didn't cross a moral event horizon, or anything, OP. But you did just buy yourself A LOT of future awkwardness at family gatherings. I know what I'd be seeing everytime I ran into Hot Cousin from here on out.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

It's not crossing the Rubicon. But it is sort of checking the water out. Especially, if boyfriend finds out. That's going to make for some awkward family time. He's not going to feel right with his cousin being around his girlfriend but he can't out and out and say, "Hey, my gf pleasured herself to your photos. I think you should know." And the poor cousin has no idea what's going on. Yeah...this is...plot line to a bad romantic comedy that has an unhappy ending.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

NO-ONE is finding this out. my internet history has never been cleaner. I don't like lying, but I am not going to be starting any conversations tomorrow about "Hey, guess what I did yesterday!"

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

You're an anon on the internet, in a comm full of other anons. Why do you need to use this weird convoluted "my friend" bullshit to cover up the fact that you wanked to your BF's cousin? Clearly you think you've crossed a line here. Maybe you should look at why you feel that way and what led you to make the choices you did, instead of asking a bunch of anons who don't know you or your situation to make moral decisions for you.

What I think: No, this isn't sketch as fuck. You found consentually-posted porn involving a person you found attractive and wanked to it. There's nothing wrong with that. If you or your BF thinks wanking = cheating, THAT'S what's sketch. If your BF isn't OK with people wanking to porn of his cousin, that's between them. If BF is jealous of a picture on the Internet, that's his problem. Neither of these problems are yours and you don't need to take them on.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

1. Thank you.
2. The "My Friend" part is misdirection, but not in the way I am suggesting. I'm sneaky like that.

Nope.

[(Anonymous)]

No lines crossed at all. She found porn or whatever online with someone she found hot, nothing wrong with that.

I suppose the line would be if she were the one related to the person, then it would be a bit weird.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

Okay, I've gotta ask, does this porn that you found of her have her directly looking at the camera and stating what she's going to do, meaning that it was without a doubt put online with her consent?

If the answer to the above question is "yes", then you did absolutely nothing wrong here. Porn is porn, and people who put it up online consensually know the risk that "anyone can find it". She probably doesn't know and doesn't care if you do as long as she's making bank from it. So no worries if this is the case, dude. Your GF will probably understand since you can't help what porn turns you on. It doesn't mean you love your girlfriend any less or find her less attractive. It just means you found more porn to enjoy.

If, however, it appears as though this stuff was put online without her permission (like hidden cameras or photos taken in a peeping tom fashion), then report that shit immediately. You probably feel sketchy about it because it wasn't used with her permission.

You seem like a good guy, so I'm sure what ever this situation is you're judgment on it will be fine.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

It was a pay-per-view site. I heard about this from a third party who knew she had willingly signed up for the site. I'm pretty confident she was aware of the... nature of the material. I feel creepy because it's my girlfriends young cousin. She was 16 when I first met her. I should not want to fap to this.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

I think what the friend did was wrong, but it's not some moral event horizon that makes your friend a terrible human being. It wasn't wrong because of your friend's relationship; I don't think there's anything wrong with fantasizing about someone you're not dating or looking at porn or whatever. But I feel it's messed up to intentionally seek out porn of someone you know. It seems like it's kind of a violation of their privacy and their trust, and you shouldn't have done it.

But like I say. It's not a line being crossed, it's someone making a mistake. Happens every day.

Re: Crossed a line?

[(Anonymous)]

If you want to feel creepy, feel creepy, but what you're fessing up to isn't remotely uncommon or weird. People fantasize about people they aren't banging all the time.

On your being-a-dude reveal, though, I'm a little disappointed--sort of took the novelty out of it.

Re: Crossed a line?

[fingalsanteater]

I think the whole "my friend" bullshit when you are anon anyway makes it creepier than it it would have been if you would have said "I fapped to pics of my gf's hot of age cousin. Is this bad?" The answer is no, imo.

Re: Crossed a line?

[insanenoodlyguy]

"she" should feel twisted and depraved, but in a sexy way.

Dirty cousin-fucker.