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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-05 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2619 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2619 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Arthur Conan Doyle, Sherlock Holmes]


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[Pushing Daisies]


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[Dallas Buyers Club]


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[Bravely Default]


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[Fake & Kuroko no Basuke]


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[Warehouse 13]


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[Willem Dafoe]


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[Dexter]


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[Rooster Teeth]


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[Lost Girl]


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hoarders =/= messy

(Anonymous) 2014-03-06 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
for me, there's a difference between hoarder and messy. my parents are definitely messies, they keep broken stuff and don't know where anything is-

I see myself as more of a hoarder, partly because I never learned to dispose of stuff, partly because my place just seems empty without stuff. You can keep stuff in order though, then I think it's probably ok.

Re: hoarders =/= messy

(Anonymous) 2014-03-06 02:10 am (UTC)(link)
True, but there's also a fairly large overlap, because there's a point at which the amount of stuff you've accumulated is too great for you to be able to keep it in order without a massive effort.

Re: hoarders =/= messy

(Anonymous) 2014-03-06 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
Accumulating tons of stuff is OK I suppose but when it becomes a health hazard to yourself or your community it crosses a line. My neighbor who was evicted from her house turned out to be a hoarder and it was one of the saddest things I've ever seen to see the MASSIVE amount of stuff that ended up on the front lawn. She came back with a friend and a little truck and was able to put some of it in and leave but left bags and bags and bags of rotting and broken items behind.

Re: hoarders =/= messy

(Anonymous) 2014-03-06 09:28 am (UTC)(link)
I consider myself a hoarder because it's pretty much impossible for me to get rid of things. I relate to things in ways most people don't. Like, I'd cry over them, maybe mourn them for years - much like some people would a beloved pet. That's the best I can explain.

Hell, it goes to the point where it bothers me when OTHER people toss out things.

Also there is an anxiety element tied to it, but that sort of goes in waves, and is stronger at times than others.

Another reason why I consider it hoarding is because I basically have more stuff than I can house, and I do have boxes in living areas.

Re: hoarders =/= messy

(Anonymous) 2014-03-07 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
Are we twins, anon? Because yes, I gnash my teeth when people tell me "It's just stuff!" To me, it's never ~just stuff. And I tend to be really distressed by the idea of getting rid of things--it seems almost that they have as good a right to be there as I do. And I live in a house that three generations of my family have lived in, and I don't think any of us have ever voluntarily thrown anything away.