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[My Mad Fat Diary]

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Why is it I can't seem to reach climax when I wear a condom? Always been this way. I always thought I had a wonky dick, until a few weeks ago when we did something very stupid. I was all like "My Dick Works!! Yay!" but every attempt we've made since then had ended in the same failure. Doesn't seem to matter how thin they are I just can't seem to climax with a condom on. What is wrong with me? Anyone else have any experience of this?

Have you tried masturbating with one on? Maybe the pressure of both having sex with another person and wearing the condom is too much; take one factor out and see if you can make it work. Then maybe you can relax enough to where it will work with your partner as well.

I get this. It's a lot harder with a condom. I think a lot of how I get off is the feeling, and it's just not quite the same with the condom on. Not impossible for me though, just harder?

Have you two looked into alternate methods?

Have you two looked into alternate methods?

I don't think OP mentioned only having one partner. Kind of rude of you to assume.

I don't think there's anything rude about assuming a repeated "we" would be a couple. It could certainly be incorrect, but I don't see how that's rude.

you sound pretty pathetic. what's this all the betamale neckbeards showing up here whining about how pathetic they are?

at least he's getting laid

you sound like you have a lot of pent up frustration

You troll like old people piss.

booo

I don't know, why are you here whining?

not sure if you do not know what "beta male" really means (since apparently some people don't) or if you're just being an asshole

Tried polyisoprene? I find it feels a LOT more natural. Might work, might not, worth a shot.

have you usually been drinking before you have sex? Or are you taking any meds that could interfere? Some people are really sensitive to that and it could be with a condom + alcohol or an antidepressant or whatever, it just isn't going to happen.

No personal experience, as I lack the equipment, but I recall reading (in a sex ed class, so presumably it's good info) that a little bit of lubrication on the *inside* of the condom can sometimes help with that.

That sucks! Here is a list of things you can try, anon:

- Try a different size condom. If you are in the USA, this is a lot more difficult, but if you do research on condom sizes you may be able to find brands with slightly different sizes. If a condom is too snug, moving up to a larger size might help. If you are not in the USA, you may be able to order from somewhere like http://www.theyfit.co.uk/

- Similarly, a condom with a baggier "head" like the Pleasure Shaped from Lifestyles might help, since it takes pressure off the tip: http://www.condomdepot.com/product/detail.cfm/nid/223/pid/2291

- Someone else mentioned lube and trying a different material. Polyisoprene is wonderful (speaking as a cis woman with various partners with dicks.) Adding extra lube to the inside of a lubed condom can help, or if the lube is irritating, getting unlubed condoms and adding your own lube might be the way to go. (Lube can have additives that are irritating; with your own lube you can find something that's all-natural or otherwise feels better.)

- If you can't climax during sex with a condom on, maybe try having sex, pulling out, removing the condom and finishing off with manual stimulation? (Or oral, though if you're not in a monogamous relationship, you should be using condoms for oral as well.) Heck, maybe you're already doing this, but I wanted to cover all the bases! It could be that taking the pressure off "having" to climax with a condom on will make actually doing it easier.

- More lube. MOAR LUBE. There is nothing wrong with adding more lube, especially if you compulsively buy more whenever you're in a sex toy shop and one day you look around and you've got about twelve tubes of the stuff and what is this is this really my life.

Good luck, anon! And just remember: There's nothing wrong with not being able to climax during PIV sex. Do what works for you and keeps you and your partner(s) safe!

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