[ SECRET POST #2620 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2620 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[My Mad Fat Diary]


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03.
[Stargate Atlantis]


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04.
[Andromeda]


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05.
[True Detective]


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06.
[Samurai Flamenco]


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07.
[Star Trek: DS9]


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08.
[Supernatural]


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[Wild Adapter]


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10.
[The Bletchley Circle]


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11. [ns]


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12.
[Junior Prom - Prelinger Archives Video]


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Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: What is wrong with me?!

[(Anonymous)]

That sucks! Here is a list of things you can try, anon:

- Try a different size condom. If you are in the USA, this is a lot more difficult, but if you do research on condom sizes you may be able to find brands with slightly different sizes. If a condom is too snug, moving up to a larger size might help. If you are not in the USA, you may be able to order from somewhere like http://www.theyfit.co.uk/

- Similarly, a condom with a baggier "head" like the Pleasure Shaped from Lifestyles might help, since it takes pressure off the tip: http://www.condomdepot.com/product/detail.cfm/nid/223/pid/2291

- Someone else mentioned lube and trying a different material. Polyisoprene is wonderful (speaking as a cis woman with various partners with dicks.) Adding extra lube to the inside of a lubed condom can help, or if the lube is irritating, getting unlubed condoms and adding your own lube might be the way to go. (Lube can have additives that are irritating; with your own lube you can find something that's all-natural or otherwise feels better.)

- If you can't climax during sex with a condom on, maybe try having sex, pulling out, removing the condom and finishing off with manual stimulation? (Or oral, though if you're not in a monogamous relationship, you should be using condoms for oral as well.) Heck, maybe you're already doing this, but I wanted to cover all the bases! It could be that taking the pressure off "having" to climax with a condom on will make actually doing it easier.

- More lube. MOAR LUBE. There is nothing wrong with adding more lube, especially if you compulsively buy more whenever you're in a sex toy shop and one day you look around and you've got about twelve tubes of the stuff and what is this is this really my life.

Good luck, anon! And just remember: There's nothing wrong with not being able to climax during PIV sex. Do what works for you and keeps you and your partner(s) safe!