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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-06 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2620 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2620 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[My Mad Fat Diary]


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[Stargate Atlantis]


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[Andromeda]


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[True Detective]


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[Samurai Flamenco]


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[Star Trek: DS9]


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[Supernatural]


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[Wild Adapter]


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[The Bletchley Circle]


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[Junior Prom - Prelinger Archives Video]


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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Nonfandom Confessions

(Anonymous) 2014-03-07 12:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Here's mine...

Although I'm very, very pro-choice, I don't like the idea of abortion as anything other than the absolute last recourse. This makes me feel like a traitor to feminism. The thing is that I do believe it's a woman's choice - I just don't see it as something a woman should have at the top of her list of options the way some of my feminist pro-choice friends do. This makes me feel like a bad feminist.

(And this really isn't about religion - I do have religious beliefs, but it's more about ethics to me than anything else. I think God is more worried about people who are already alive.)

possible tw for rape and abortion below

(Anonymous) 2014-03-07 02:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I am so sick of seeing this 'bad feminist' worry. Show me The One Perfect Feminist. You can't. Feminism has many branches and no two feminists agree on everything. This is pretty common? I don't think anybody really likes abortion. This is why PP clinics give free birth control and other resources for women. Are you a guy? I don't want to assume but it's the way you refer to "a woman" and not yourself. I'm not gonna get all radfem!anon on your ass if you are, buuut, if it is at the top of someone's list, that sounds like a very personal thing and she probably has a reason. Nobody else has lived her life so it's not really anybody's place to judge. I do think it's stupid to have lots of unprotected sex and say "I'll just get an abortion!" (I have known people like this!) But most of us are just thinking "What do I do if I get pregnant from a rape? I have to think of that as a real possibility and be prepared." And if they decide they can't handle going through with the pregnancy that is as you say their choice. You can't stop yourself from having feelings about it, just realize that it's not really about your feelings. If you aren't a guy, same answer really. You don't know what it's like from her perspective.