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⌈ Secret Post #2620 ⌋

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[My Mad Fat Diary]

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[Stargate Atlantis]

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[Andromeda]

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[True Detective]

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[Samurai Flamenco]

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[Star Trek: DS9]

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[Supernatural]

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[Wild Adapter]

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[The Bletchley Circle]

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11. [ns]

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[Junior Prom - Prelinger Archives Video]

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I'd bet your friends were kind of insecure about their own sex lives and were putting you down in an attempt to get some validation.

I didn't run into this much in college for whatever reason, but in grad school I kept meeting undergrads who seemed really sensitive about the casual sex they were having and would get preemptively defensive about it. It's like they were either enjoying the casual sex but felt like maybe they weren't supposed to enjoy it, or they didn't enjoy it but thought they were supposed to be having it anyway because that's just what you do in college. Either way, they'd be unnecessarily desperate to normalize their behavior by lashing out at people who didn't behave the same. (Fortunately, I wasn't a target since I was older and possibly their TA.)

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