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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-07 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2621 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2621 ⌋

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Re: Random Confessions Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty sure I'm gay, but I'm scared to come out to my parents. I feel really pathetic about this because my mom has specifically said she wouldn't care if I was gay, and my dad's sister is gay and they get along well. They're both pretty liberal and pro-gay rights, so I have no idea why I'm so freaked out.

I just have this weird fear that they'll make fun of me or treat me differently. I don't exactly have thick skin. :/
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Re: Random Confessions Thread

[personal profile] sarillia 2014-03-08 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
I had those worries too even though I was in a similar position. Even after coming out to her, I still have trouble talking to my mom about things that involve my girlfriend because I just feel weird about it. I don't really have any advice but I can relate.

Just remember that you are under no obligation to come out. If you think you will feel better if you don't have to worry about it anymore then go ahead and do it (that's why I ended up doing it) but if the risk feels too great, even if you know that objectively it probably won't be as bad as it is for a lot of people, no one should put pressure on you to do it.

Re: Random Confessions Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 01:32 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I'm just afraid I won't be able to talk to my mom the same as before once I get a girlfriend.

Thanks for the advice. I know I'm going to have to come out eventually, but I think I'll just keep it a secret for now.

Re: Random Confessions Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
That is a pretty natural fear. How old are you, and how long have you been thinking you were gay? Don't rush it, when you feel ready to tell them you will know.

Re: Random Confessions Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
I'm 19, and I've been thinking I'm gay for a few months now. For a while, I thought I was bi, but I feel like I was just convincing myself so I could feel more normal. I've dated a couple guys, but I didn't enjoy it at all. I also feel like I just generally don't find guys all that attractive. People kept telling me how attractive my second boyfriend was, but I really didn't find him attractive and the idea of having sex with him was repulsive. I'm glad I never did it with him.

I've mainly had crushes on girls, but they're all straight, unfortunately. I have a huge crush on a really good friend, and I kind of fantasize about spending my life with her. I've never felt that before with a guy.

Sorry for the rambling, and thanks for the advice!

Re: Random Confessions Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
You sound almost exactly like me when I was your age, actually. I came out when I was 20, only because I had a girlfriend and I didn't want to keep her a secret. Straight girl crushes are the absolute worst. Good luck, anon.

Re: Random Confessions Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 03:44 am (UTC)(link)
It's okay to be afraid, and you will probably be fine. Most likely, in a few years you'll be laughing and telling the story of "Yeah, before I came out to my folks I was really freaked out, but they were totally cool with it." Best of luck, anon. :)