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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-07 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2621 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2621 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Re: Random Confessions Thread

(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 09:39 am (UTC)(link)
If you don't want to be "that gay guy that needs everybody to know" and... forgive me, but you seem a bit impatient to tell them rather than letting it happen naturally, so why DO you want them to know? Either you're going to have to manufacture a somewhat natural sounding situation where your sexuality comes up, or you make the awkward announcement you said you don't want to make.

The reality of it is, you ARE that guy who wants to inform everyone even though nobody's asked. There's nothing wrong with that! But there's also no point in pretending you don't want to do what you very obviously want to do, which is tell your friends even though they haven't asked you about it.


"We're an older group, everyone is over 30-35 except me, some have spouses and kids... so it's a little awkward for anyone to talk about how hot an actor is."

Uh, okay. I'm 36 and married, not dead. My friends and I regularly mention actors we find attractive. We don't necessarily do it in a juvenile way ("hur hur lookit the fine ass on that one"), it's just casual or even silly, the way friends goof around. Old married people with kids can have friends who goof around, it's allowed.

Or since you mentioned you're not currently with anyone, this seems like a great opportunity to ask your friends if they know a hot male geek they could set you up with because you're sick of going to the movies by yourself/eating out a single diner/whatever. Whether they do or don't, hey, problem solved! Seriously, good luck OP, and don't overthink this.