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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-08 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2622 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2622 ⌋

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Re: Can you love more than one person? I can't.

[personal profile] chardmonster 2014-03-08 09:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay, so let's break this down.

I began thinking about this because of one of the Sherlock secrets

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What I'm realizing now is that I can't personally relate to loving two people at the same time - maybe in different ways, but with similar intensity.

combined with

Is this immature or what.

Please, please, please never again wonder if you are immature because you're comparing yourself to Sherlock fandom

I can totally relate to you. At the same time, I can totally relate to other people who can have best friends that intimate. I used to have a best friend, but we grew apart with time and her getting married. I'd LOVE to have that sort of emotional freedom with somebody. Unfortunately it's hard to get that close to people once you're an adult. It sucks. So I'm wondering if it's not that we can't love two people at once so much that it's just hard to find.
Edited 2014-03-08 21:49 (UTC)

Re: Can you love more than one person? I can't.

[personal profile] seventh_seal 2014-03-08 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Being an adult sucks, period, but yeah, I see where you're coming from. It's difficult getting close to other adults because everybody seems to have pretty fixed social circles, not to mention many people either have paired themselves off like I did or seem to be on a quest to do that, so the emotional availability market is limited.