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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-08 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2622 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2622 ⌋

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Re: Moan about family/friends/acquaintances/coworkers

(Anonymous) 2014-03-08 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
My family is just like yours. My suggestion? Move out as soon as you can.

The best decision I've ever made was moving away from my family, and I spent several years feeling angry towards them for pretty all the same reasons you've described here. But at least now I've started to live my life without being trapped in that toxic routine, but I'm still learning how much time I can spend with them without me falling back into it.

At the same time, I had this friend who didn't move out on time, and she still lives with her family. It was a sad case, because she wittered before my eyes, her once perky and happy behavior dissapeared completely; now she's as bitter as the rest of her family. Don't let that happen to you.
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Re: Moan about family/friends/acquaintances/coworkers

[personal profile] deenaa 2014-03-09 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
*whispers* Are you me

Seriously this. You don't wanna stay around toxic people, especially faaaaaamily.

Re: Moan about family/friends/acquaintances/coworkers

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 08:01 pm (UTC)(link)
This. Make plans to get out of there as soon as you can, and when they try to pull you back in (which they will), refuse. Make your own life and your own family. Just put your foot down about the camping trip: you and the dogs aren't going. Start teaching your mom that you can't be manipulated like that, that what you want is more important to you than what she wants. (It took me far, FAR too long to learn that lesson, and I am not a "better person" for it.)