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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-08 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2622 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2622 ⌋

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Re: Can you love more than one person? I can't.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 12:44 am (UTC)(link)
This implies that that kind of jealousy is something people normally - and are supposed to - grow out of and I don't think that's the case. Being capable of loving more than one person with equal intensity doesn't mean you're forever incapable of feeling jealousy, and feeling jealous doesn't mean that you won't be able get a handle on those feelings and move past them without causing any harm.

As an adult, you potentially have a lot more riding on your significant relationships (support network, business interests, shared children/property/household) than you did as a kid and I think it's quite rational to be protective of those relationships because of this. The jealousy this can trigger may not be rational, but it comes from a real, understandable place. Maturity is not about never experiencing jealousy ever, it's about how you deal with those feelings.