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Re: Straight-sized?
(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 01:25 am (UTC)(link)Yeah, sure, thinness is correlated with privilege in the West (yes it is go read the studies), but the association is far from simple or rigid, and even though most lesbians I know (am one myself) don't bother to diet like most straight women I know, that's really not a GOOD association to be making in terms of making up a descriptor for "ideal" weight, nor is my observation scientific or universal. (I'm not going to say "normal" because the average, and the median, weight, is above that of "ideal" in Western societies.)
Just don't combine "oppressions", ffs. Different issues.
Re: Straight-sized?
(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 01:59 am (UTC)(link)Re: Straight-sized?
(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 03:14 am (UTC)(link)No, no it isn't. You can lose weight. You can't change your sexuality or race or sex or magically make yourself not disabled.
Re: Straight-sized?
(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 07:01 am (UTC)(link)The "main" reason, huh?
Actually, weight is not that easy for a large number of people to change, because it can reflect lifestyle due to poverty or illness, whatever weight that is. Also, a lot of races don't do well with the Western carb-heavy diets. Some people also just have very stubborn metabolisms.
I feel uncomfortable, like you're implying sexuality is okay because it's "fixed" (and weight isn't) which some people maintain, which is also bullshit.