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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-08 03:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2622 ]


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diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Can you love more than one person? I can't.

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-03-09 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
That is not what they said though? If I had an SO and we were THAT close and he let someone else in his life be close to him to the same degree that I was, I'd be jealous. Maybe not everyone with a romantic relationship is like this, but with me, those kinds of relationships are special and of a particular kind (and I eventually want to get married) and...you just expect that each person is the other's #1. I mean I wouldn't without talking about it but I wouldn't stay in a relationship with someone who didn't function that way. People are just different, I guess.
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Re: Can you love more than one person? I can't.

[personal profile] inkdust 2014-03-09 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
What you're saying makes sense in terms of intimacy. When OP used the word love, I couldn't agree, but for intimacy, I can definitely see no one being closer than one's partner. I also think there's a difference between, as I mentioned above, a 16 year friendship being significant in someone's life versus making a new friend at work. If my partner had a long-standing close friendship like that, I would expect it to be a priority for them because it's a priority for me. But at the same time, I would definitely expect us both to consider each other the #1.