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⌈ Secret Post #2622 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Accidental friendzoning - a lament :-(

[(Anonymous)]

Thanks.

I get what you mean about the concept, but generally I think people do categorise their relationships to some extent and I saw him as a friend only. Perhaps I've used the wrong term, or a term with the wrong implications.

Re: Accidental friendzoning - a lament :-(

[diet_poison]

eh, but don't you see a lot of people you know as friend-only? it's what I do. It means you don't have romantic interest in them and there's nothing wrong with that.

I get what you're saying - I just think the term "friendzone" has implications that go waaaay beyond a simple "I'm friends with this guy" sentiment. and those implications are generally kind of awful (sexist, etc.) Not for the person doing the "friendzoning" - not at all - but for the people using that term seriously.

Re: Accidental friendzoning - a lament :-(

[(Anonymous)]

What diet_poison said. Treating a guy like a friend is not a horrible thing to do to a guy just because he's a guy. You're not obligated to be constantly on high alert for dudes who might want to date you and it's not a failing of some kind to NOT pick up on possible psychic messages from said dudes.

Never listen to anyone who says friendzoning is a Thing, much less a painful, awful Thing inflicted upon them by heartless women. Those people are jerks.