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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-09 04:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #2623 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2623 ⌋

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[personal profile] queerwolf 2014-03-09 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
And I kinda wish I was more androgynous-looking.

The guy on the bottom is gorgeous.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 08:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I could stand to look more masculine, I wish I could trade you tbh

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 08:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd love to look more androgynous, but I'm too curvy. :( I find it beautiful. I'm really attracted to people whom I can't tell their gender. lol

(well, I should clarify, I like beautiful androgyny. I'm still shallow.)

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm really attracted to beautiful androgynous girls but not so much masculine androgynous girls, and I think androgynous guys are pretty but I'm not into them. So I'm shallow and also really finicky.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
OP, looking androgynous isn't only archieved by looking like a skinny pretty boy. it's the mixture of female and male, or another gender entirely.

If your curves make you look rather feminine, try clothing that has aspects of hyper masculinity (maybe facial hair that you can take off?) and top it off with a feminine bow, lol-

Or if you feel bold, try pushing it into drag/costume quality. the examples aren't quite as common (or don't get shown in the media as often?) but I've seen people whose guideline for dressing is e.g rockstar, mermaid, fairy, or alien, which can look weird, but really beautiful and androgynous as well. (plus, it's hella fun. here are over the top mermaid examples: http://grausamblau.tumblr.com/post/69959899353/5feet12inches-30th-annual-coney-island-mermaid)

it's a look I really started to love, because let's admit it, totally genderless looking thin person look sort of samey after a while.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I can see why the guy in the background creeps you out. He kinda looks like a grey alien.
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[personal profile] rubbertea 2014-03-09 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not the androgyny that creeps me out, it's the make-up. It gives them an uncanny valley, alien look that gives me horror movie vibes.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
This.

I wish I were more androgynous-looking, but not in a way that required 500 lbs of makeup and hair products. I think that stuff makes most people look like aliens or dolls, neigher of which are attractive (to me). I like my humans looking human.

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[personal profile] weaselbee 2014-03-09 09:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Same.
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[personal profile] ill_omened 2014-03-09 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
That is a tremendously pretty man.

10/10, would objectify.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
That's fair. They're not everyone's thing by a long shot. But wow, you can send all of that my way anytime, because I love it. Handsome Japanese rockstars? Yes, please.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Androgyny used to creep me out until I figured out why it was creeping me out, which I think has to do with me being unable to figure out how to act around androgynous people, which just pointed out to me how gendered my behavior and treatment of others was. And that unsettled me, so I've attempted to change my ideas of gender and behavior and now not so much with the creeping me out.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 09:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I think this is a common reaction, judging by the number of people who appear very uncomfortable with not being able to figure out my gender (I'm pretty androgynous in appearance). Thank you for putting thought into it and deciding to change; I think that's pretty cool.
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[personal profile] xenomantid 2014-03-10 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
Good on you for making the change. That might sound sarcastic, but I'm sincere: we need more people like you who look inside themselves and alter their behavior for the better.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-10 02:48 am (UTC)(link)
It doesn't creep me out, but I'm always worried that I'll end up being rude by using the wrong pronoun by accident, especially because I had it drilled into me that the polite way to address a stranger was with "sir/ma'am."

(Anonymous) 2014-03-10 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, thanks for drawing attention to the fact that the "creep" factor is to do with socialisation. I don't think it's "natural" to be creeped out by a normal human variation, I think it's taught.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)
#1. Visual kei, I think.

#2. Gackt. Yes please. He's aged wonderfully, see Bunraku
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[personal profile] darkmanifest 2014-03-09 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Fucking love Bunraku.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-10 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
Gackt is crazy beautiful. I don't care for his music, nor really his acting but looking at him is always nice.

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-09 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Your choice OP, but would you like to be slated for Transphobia or Homophobia? Or you can have both, because you do have issues there.

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[personal profile] elaminator 2014-03-09 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Who are these people? Is the bottom right guy in Plastic Tree? (Why I think Plastic Tree, IDK. God, it's been a while.) He looks awfully familiar but I can't place a name or band.

Either way, he is gorgeous and I love the eyeshadow. (Teach me!)

(And I think androgynous people are beautiful. It's okay if androgyny doesn't do it for you, but I like it.)

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[personal profile] mautradutor 2014-03-09 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Why don't you tell her? I think you should! It's OK for that friends don't like the things they are friends as. She should be understanding.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-10 04:24 am (UTC)(link)
those are guys??

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-10 02:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel like this secret is so '00s.

And I'm weirded out that visual kei as a genre is still alive.