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⌈ Secret Post #2624 ⌋

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[Outlander]

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[The Walking Dead]

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[How I Met Your Mother]

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[Twitch Plays Pokemon]

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[Batman, Kill La Kill, Borderlands]

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[Overlord]

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[Red Dwarf]

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[Paranatural]

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[Pitch Perfect]

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[Insidious: Chapter 2]

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I'm glad things turned out okay.

Today was pretty dramatic for me. I have a friend who has been trying to ignore a crush they have on me for months. They're really depressed about not being in a relationship and feel guilty about their jealousy of my relationship and their feelings for me. Today they told me that they're going to avoid me for a while while they try to get past these feelings. They have depression and anxiety that has gone untreated and I tried to get them to promise that they would try to talk to a professional if they're going to cut out the person in their life that they are able to talk to most (that's what they've said), but I'm afraid that's not going to happen and I'm worried.

I've been in their position and, for what it's worth, the distance really did help me get over that person and by extension made things a little easier since I wasn't dealing with the stress of a one-sided crush, or having the fact it was one-sided brought up as often* [particularly when I felt like shit and just wanted to talk.]

Idk if that's what will happen with them, but there is a chance that they really do just need space - at least, in terms of feelings for you.

*I'm not saying you do that but...well. Sometimes just seeing the person reminds you, and that can really suck.

I'm glad to hear it helped you.

I've been at kind of a loss for how to respond but apparently I've done all right. Last night my friend told me I'm the nicest person to have an unrequited crush on.

AYRT

Ah, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to make that about me - I just meant that because it's worked before, maybe it'll work for them too.

And that's a good thing!

Oh no worries! I understood where you were coming from and I really appreciate it.

Thank you. <3

That sounds awkward and rough, especially if you really care about your friend, which it sounds like you do. I hope they get help.

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