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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-11 06:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2625 ]


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diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Why do feel this way

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-03-12 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
I wish I knew what to say to help you...but please do get some perspective. I wish my life were half as together as yours.

Re: Why do feel this way

(Anonymous) 2014-03-12 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
I know. I'm trying. And I know that 5 years ago, there is no way I could have been where I am today. I'm making progress. I just can't seem to stop the thoughts that tell me it isn't good enough.
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: Why do feel this way

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-03-12 03:52 am (UTC)(link)
Chronic perfectionism?

Also, sorry for my earlier comment being kinda rude. Besides, I've been getting things together and doing much better lately than before, so I should not complain.
Edited 2014-03-12 03:53 (UTC)

Re: Why do feel this way

(Anonymous) 2014-03-15 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude, please don't try and tell someone who sounds like they're experiencing depressive thoughts to get some perspective. There's a good chance that they already do have perspective and are fully aware that they have no logical reason to feel as shitty as they do, and then just feel worse because they feel bad, and fall into a negative cycle of feeling bad and then feeling bad about feeling bad and so on an so forth...

Depression and depressive thoughts aren't logical, and trying to approach them from a logical standpoint really doesn't help. The only thing I've ever found that helps (other than anti-depressants) is to try and block negative thoughts before you get pulled into them (and blocking does not involve going 'I shouldn't feel bad, stop feeling bad' it's basically going 'Nope, not going to think of that at all, lalala, ignoring you'.) but even then there'll be times you trip and fall into a pit of feeling like complete shit for no good reason because part of your brain is basically glitching.
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Re: Why do feel this way

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-03-16 03:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay?

I have depression too and it's a big part of the reason my life is the shambles it is right now instead of being all orderly.

I was being a bit bitter and I realize that. I in fact apologized to OP elsewhere in the thread. This comment, days late, seems a bit odd in light of that.