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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-15 03:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2629 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2629 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2014-03-16 12:36 am (UTC)(link)
Perspective is important, but it doesn't mean shit when it kills your empathy for everything else.

There's a difference between "I'm sorry your best friend isn't talking to you, but you seem to be venting a lot about it lately. Is there anything you can do to mend bridges or move forward?" and "JESUS TITS I'M SICK TO DEATH ABOUT HEARING ABOUT YOUR FUCKING FRIEND, THERE ARE STARVING CHILDREN IN AFRICA WHO DON'T EVEN HAVE A FRIEND TO EAT SO STFU YOU UNGRATEFUL TWAT."

Validate the feelings, but discourage the melodramatic behavior.

P.S. I'm sorry you had to deal with so many horrible things at such a young age.