[ SECRET POST #2630 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2630 ⌋

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[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

I honestly haven't. But I'm also freakishly lacking in jealousy.

This may just be something that I can't completely understand. :-/

[(Anonymous)]

Consider yourself lucky, then. :)

I'm a very proprietary person, and feeling possessive of someone is the worst feeling in the world, because I know I shouldn't be. The good news is I know it so I control my actions accordingly.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm not the jealous type naturally, and I'm polyamorous.

But curious, if you're up for answering: how do you reckon you would you go in the situation where someone you were dating (with "love" having been mentioned) deliberately ditches you to go off with someone else during the date?

Because when it happened to me, that kind of made me feel jealous, or at least pissed off. But for me I guess it was linked to disrespect, and concern I was being more permanently discarded.

Still really interested to know how other poly or non-jealous type people would go in a situation like that. I was a bit obsessed with the new girl for a while, trying to find out what she had that I didn't. It made me feel dirty :/

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

Honestly, I've had something similar happen to me before, and I didn't feel jealous so much as pissed that I had been treated so rudely. As you note, it's disrespectful.

I don't feel possessive of people in the sense that I want them to just be with me or that I feel threatened if they're around other possible romantic interests. But if I make plans with someone, (whether it's someone I'm dating or someone I'm just friends with) then I'm going to focus on them during that period, and I expect them to reciprocate. Otherwise, it's almost like you're just there to kill time until something better comes along, and that's not nice at all.

[(Anonymous)]

Thankyou! Yes, that makes sense. I don't feel threatened per se by other romantic interests, and have encouraged my long-term current partner to pursue them.

it's almost like you're just there to kill time until something better comes along

Ouch. Okay. Yeah, I think that's what that person was doing to me :/

Appreciated :-)