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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-17 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2631 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2631 ⌋

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Re: I'm officially the only one left :(

[personal profile] bribedwithbacon 2014-03-18 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
What on earth? First off, your mom is wrong about everyone having kids or that it's the only fulfilling and selfless path in life. It's great to want a family and kids if you can financially and emotionally support them. But please, don't ever have kids because you're being pressured to or because someone tells you everyone else is doing it. Kids aren't for everyone, and amazing selfless people who are happy with their lives and who don't have kids exist. Likewise, there can be some pretty selfish parents out there. Also, kids can sometimes pick up on not really being wanted by their parents, so it's not really fair to them.

Have kids because you want to raise a kid to see them grow into their own individual with their own aspirations in life. If you can never see yourself being happy with kids, then keep ignoring your mother about this. It will save you from lots of disappointment and family dysfunction. And just a reminder, there's plenty of successful, happy, and selfless adults who never want kids. Stay strong, anon.