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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-17 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2631 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2631 ⌋

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cassandraoftroy: Chiana from Farscape, an alien with grayscale skin and hair (Default)

Re: I'm officially the only one left :(

[personal profile] cassandraoftroy 2014-03-18 12:56 am (UTC)(link)
There's absolutely nothing selfish about not having kids if you don't want them. In fact, having kids just because it's socially-expected when you actually don't want them is much worse, imo, both for the kids and the parents. Besides, getting married and having children aren't typically just things that happen to people -- you don't mention whether you want a husband (or are even into guys -- or romantic relationships), but if you DID, it's not like you can just pop down to the husband store and pick one out.

It's completely understandable and valid to feel lonely and abandoned when your friends stop being available or only talk about things that are completely irrelevant to your life when you do see them. If you're looking for solutions, I might suggest trying to expand your circle of friends by participating in groups, clubs, or activities where you might meet some like-minded people with whom you might have more in common? Regardless, you're not selfish or weird, and your feelings are legitimate.