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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-17 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2631 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2631 ⌋

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Re: I'm officially the only one left :(

(Anonymous) 2014-03-18 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
I came about this from the opposite direction, OP. I was the first person in my group of friends to have kids. And, I don't know, it's so different, having this other, tiny person that you have to consider 24/7. I tried to stay up with my circle of friends, and stay included, but it was impossible. I was excluded more and more often because I guess I was a wet blanket? I don't know. We barely ever talk now. I've made new friends, but the loss still stings.
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Re: I'm officially the only one left :(

[personal profile] lunabee34 2014-03-18 03:26 am (UTC)(link)
This was me too. My husband and I had our first kid really early in our first year of grad school. We lost every single friend we had. We were 350 miles away from home and every single person we'd befriended dropped us like hot cakes because we couldn't go out to the bar at the drop of a hat. It was super demoralizing and lonely.

Re: I'm officially the only one left :(

(Anonymous) 2014-03-18 12:12 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't understand why people over the age of 21 think you're useless if you won't do bars. Even when I was 21 I didn't like drinking that much. People suck.