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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-20 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2634 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2634 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Lady Gaga]


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[free!, attack on titan]


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(Panic! at the Disco)


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[Anarky]


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(Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.)


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Re: Yet another fight with my mom...I feel so alone :(

[personal profile] yield 2014-03-21 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
it's not much but i hope that some well wishes can help a little :/ i'm sorry that your family is so shit to you. feeling alone is really so terrifying and makes everything else seem so black and dismal, but new friends and experiences always come and go. it's just hard to remember that part.

the next time your mom accuses you of not sharing with her, or even on your own, you can ask just what it is she wants to know, maybe. point out that you have tried to share your feelings and hobbies but she wasn't interested, so what does she want? it could help her realize her behaviour, or at least put her in her place a bit. unless of course you've tried that already.

Re: Yet another fight with my mom...I feel so alone :(

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
I have. She'll say "nothing, it's fine", go back to talking about herself, and then the next time she decides to complain about me not sharing, I'll ask the same thing, she'll give the same answer, rinse and repeat.

She's befriended these girls my age (my brother's ex and a younger girl she works with) and has basically taken them under her wing and treated them like daughters because they're both straight and have kids and are into all the super traditional domestic stuff she is. I have to admit that it makes me feel like she's replaced me and that makes me feel horrible. I wish I could have that type of relationship with her, but I never will. I just wish I had a different mom. This is the first time I've ever really admitted it to myself, but I wish that so bad.