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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-20 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2634 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2634 ⌋

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[Lady Gaga]


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[free!, attack on titan]


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(Panic! at the Disco)


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(Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.)


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I don't like having sex with people but

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 01:52 am (UTC)(link)
I really enjoy masturbating. Sex with other people has never done anything for me but by myself it's more of just a fun hobby. I don't think of anything while I do it and there's nothing that really "turns me on." But sometimes I'll be bored and think "hmmm, I'll go masturbate." It's not like there's a "need" or anything I'll just think "well I can't think of anything else to do right now so why not." I don't need to have an orgasm and sometimes I'll stop before I get to that point but even without one it's still fun. I've never been sexually attracted to anyone and I don't even think I've ever felt horny. I've really wondered if I'm asexual but I'm pretty sure they don't enjoy masturbating this much. And it's not like I'm attracted to myself or anything weird like that either. I guess I'm just a total freak of nature.
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: I don't like having sex with people but

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-03-21 02:49 am (UTC)(link)
From my understanding being asexual has nothing to do with masturbating (or even enjoying sex). It seems likely that that is what is going on with you. Of course I cannot say for sure.

Re: I don't like having sex with people but

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 05:20 am (UTC)(link)
You're probably right I guess I just don't want it to be true.
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Re: I don't like having sex with people but

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-03-21 12:30 pm (UTC)(link)
hm...why not?

Re: I don't like having sex with people but

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 12:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I want to be like everyone else and get married eventually but it's kind of hard to find a spouse if you won't have sex with them.

Re: I don't like having sex with people but

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 12:53 pm (UTC)(link)
SA

Or doing it and not enjoying it and expecting them to be fine with that.
diet_poison: (Default)

Re: I don't like having sex with people but

[personal profile] diet_poison 2014-03-21 02:06 pm (UTC)(link)
There are people who want a romantic/marital relationship without sex, but I think they're much harder to find.

However, you should ask yourself: why do you want to get married? "Because everyone else does it" is a terrible reason. You should only try to get married if it will make you happy.