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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-20 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2634 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2634 ⌋

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[Lady Gaga]


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[free!, attack on titan]


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(Panic! at the Disco)


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(Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.)


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Re: Let's talk about big cocks

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 04:57 am (UTC)(link)
Looks like you might have to travel a bit to find someone sexually compatible with you. You can always move back home again with them if you like. Or find someone exceptional, or on holiday in your area, or date an immigrant.

I also grew up in a religious area. There were two main approaches to anal from guys. Either they wanted it, because contraception was forbidden, and almost impossible to buy if you weren't married. They were the daring, rakish minority. Others didn't even consider anal, they were too busy trying to persuade you to blow them, and then hide it from their church that they were having sex at all.

they only want it as long as the girl DOESN'T want it

Well, that's just completely disgusting and unacceptable. Unfortunately I can picture it all too easily. A lot of young men egg each other on to pressurise women into sex, as if it's some badge of honour to be unpleasant.

I think nobody does communication well when they're young. There's this romantic ideal that love and sex don't have to be worked at. Luckily some people mature enough to realise how much better it can be when you're not shooting in the dark.

A sweeping generalisation to make, but yeah, travel a bit.

Re: Let's talk about big cocks

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
Well, that's just completely disgusting and unacceptable. Unfortunately I can picture it all too easily. A lot of young men egg each other on to pressurise women into sex, as if it's some badge of honour to be unpleasant.

I think there's definitely a certain element of control to it, like the fact that they're making a girl do something she doesn't want to do is what gets them off. But when the girl is wanting it and enjoying it then suddenly they don't find it appealing anymore. Which, yeah, is kind of fucked up.

That's pretty much how it's always been for me. There's this attitude that I think you mentioned before, that sex should always be spontaneous and romantic and it almost ruins it if you talk about it.

I've said that the next relationship I get into I want to have an honest discussion about sex early on so we're on the same page. I know so many people who have issues with their sex lives because they were afraid to talk to their partner about what they wanted.

Yeah, I think you're right. It sounds like traveling is a good option!