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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-20 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #2634 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2634 ⌋

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[Lady Gaga]


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[free!, attack on titan]


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(Panic! at the Disco)


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[Anarky]


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(Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.)


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Re: Let's talk about big cocks

(Anonymous) 2014-03-21 05:26 am (UTC)(link)
Well, that's just completely disgusting and unacceptable. Unfortunately I can picture it all too easily. A lot of young men egg each other on to pressurise women into sex, as if it's some badge of honour to be unpleasant.

I think there's definitely a certain element of control to it, like the fact that they're making a girl do something she doesn't want to do is what gets them off. But when the girl is wanting it and enjoying it then suddenly they don't find it appealing anymore. Which, yeah, is kind of fucked up.

That's pretty much how it's always been for me. There's this attitude that I think you mentioned before, that sex should always be spontaneous and romantic and it almost ruins it if you talk about it.

I've said that the next relationship I get into I want to have an honest discussion about sex early on so we're on the same page. I know so many people who have issues with their sex lives because they were afraid to talk to their partner about what they wanted.

Yeah, I think you're right. It sounds like traveling is a good option!