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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-21 07:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #2635 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2635 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Casshern (film)]


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02.
[cosplay, Anthony Misiano]


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03. http://i.imgur.com/4s3vCwo.png
[link for nudity/etc. naked mpreg snape with boobs.]


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04. http://i.imgur.com/aQi1eUV.png
[link for nudity (OP requested it; not really sexual though. probably would've been ok, considering the one below ↓)]


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08. [posted twice]


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09.
[Josh Radnor]


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10. [SPOILERS for Sherlock]



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11. [SPOILERS for Grimm]



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12. [SPOILERS for Twisted]



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13. [WARNING for ephebophilia]



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14. [WARNING for suicide]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #376.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: Slight tangent, but where is this mythical safe space I keep hearing about?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-22 01:08 pm (UTC)(link)
This happens to me often because I mod a few fandom groups. I'm not a therapist but I have strangers telling me their life histories of mental illness and asking for my advice just because we both like the same fandom. My problem is I feel too much empathy with/for them and the constant bombardment of another's misery becomes toxic to me in the end. It's insidious though. It creeps up so slowly that it takes a while to realize that they are dragging me down with them. I've had to pull away from a few toxic relationships both online and outside, asking the other person to seek professional help. It makes me feel so guilty even though I know it is the right thing to do (for me) because I doubt they ever seek the professional help they desperately need. More likely is that they simply move onto the next person willing to listen to them for a while.