[ SECRET POST #2635 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2635 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[Casshern (film)]


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02.
[cosplay, Anthony Misiano]


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03. http://i.imgur.com/4s3vCwo.png
[link for nudity/etc. naked mpreg snape with boobs.]


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04. http://i.imgur.com/aQi1eUV.png
[link for nudity (OP requested it; not really sexual though. probably would've been ok, considering the one below ↓)]


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08. [posted twice]


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09.
[Josh Radnor]


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10. [SPOILERS for Sherlock]



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11. [SPOILERS for Grimm]



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12. [SPOILERS for Twisted]



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13. [WARNING for ephebophilia]



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14. [WARNING for suicide]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #376.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Slight tangent, but where is this mythical safe space I keep hearing about?

[(Anonymous)]

Definitely feeling you on suddenly realizing you've been someone's therapist. I've had to remove (slowly, and oh god so carefully) myself from one or two friendships because there was literally no way they would get real help otherwise. Why make an appointment with a trained therapist when I'm just an IM away? When I realize the relationship is only hurting (possibly killing, in one case) us both, that's when I start backing off.

I've been doing pretty much what you suggest for the past few months, and it's worth the effort. There's nothing wrong with wanting to set boundaries, OP.

Re: Slight tangent, but where is this mythical safe space I keep hearing about?

[nyxelestia]

I've hit the point where I'm either just adding on support to people who are already getting professional help, or I'm a stopgap for people who can't get professional help.

I'm glad you were able to do that, anon. It's a heartbreak, sometimes, to have to remove yourself from a friendship or relationship because of its toxicity.

Re: Slight tangent, but where is this mythical safe space I keep hearing about?

[(Anonymous)]

This happens to me often because I mod a few fandom groups. I'm not a therapist but I have strangers telling me their life histories of mental illness and asking for my advice just because we both like the same fandom. My problem is I feel too much empathy with/for them and the constant bombardment of another's misery becomes toxic to me in the end. It's insidious though. It creeps up so slowly that it takes a while to realize that they are dragging me down with them. I've had to pull away from a few toxic relationships both online and outside, asking the other person to seek professional help. It makes me feel so guilty even though I know it is the right thing to do (for me) because I doubt they ever seek the professional help they desperately need. More likely is that they simply move onto the next person willing to listen to them for a while.