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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2014-03-23 03:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2637 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2637 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 070 secrets from Secret Submission Post #377.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
tabaqui: (Default)

[personal profile] tabaqui 2014-03-24 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
How is anyone 'spoiled' by fictional friendships? Unless you grew up in a cave, you saw real life friendships around you *all the time*. Sure, maybe some of you grew up around mostly shitty people in shitty situations, but *everyone* around you was so horrifying that only tv or books gave you any thoughts on how 'friendship' works?

I just find that...really odd.

Before i could read or care about tv, i saw my brother and sister and parents interact with friends and that's the only thing i based relationships off of until i made my own.

(Anonymous) 2014-03-24 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
I assume you mean me, not the OP of the secret, but I don't really know how it happened. I guess I had no role models I strongly identified with?

My best guess is that because my family moved a lot when I was a kid, the only "friendships" between "people" familiar to me that I could observe over the course of more than a couple years were the ones between characters in the books I could take with me from state to state.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2014-03-24 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
I think i was just tossing that out there in general, but sure....

But...isn't a couple of years long enough to 'get' what friendships are about?

(Anonymous) 2014-03-24 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
Oh sure, I "got" what friendships are about, it's not like I didn't understand or couldn't sympathize with other people who did have them. But "getting" them and having deep personal feelings about your own friendships are rather different things.